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Suppose your intimate relationship is a garden and

Suppose your intimate relationship is a garden and a storm hits (for example, an external factor or stress that impacts heavily on your relationship like a baby/ redundancy/ death in the family) it can obliterate it. Unless the garden is mature, with deep roots and resilient plants, it will more than likely be destroyed. A fragile or young garden is unlikely to survive a big storm.
Fortunately, when TWO gardeners work together to restore and repair the damage that has been done, the garden benefits in the long term. Given that we can't avoid storms - they are a part of nature and the cycle of life - we can do our best to prepare for their arrival. We can nurture and protect the garden in anticipation by pulling together and communicating clearly expectations and needs.
The challenge arises when there is only one gardener making all the effort to keep the garden alive. At some point, doing the work alone becomes tedious for a solo gardener in what is supposed to be a team effort.
Today I am asking you to reflect on this:
Are you sure you aren't neglecting your garden?
How confident are you about the level of your efforts as equal?
Keep tuned-in to the state and well-being of your garden so that WHEN the storm hits ⛈️ it isn't destroyed completely.

Connect. Collaborate. Create. This is the tagline

Connect. Collaborate. Create.
This is the tagline @santam_insurance Annual Learning Summit.
I am delivering my presentation today on Constructive Conflict, this time to a hybrid audience.
For sure, there will be some insights about how to connect and collaborate better and I am excited to learn from this prestigious audience, their key- takeaways. It is through Constructive conflict that we can connect, collaborate and create healthy relationships

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Diversity is the natural consequence of many uniqu

Diversity is the natural consequence of many unique individuals expressing themselves authentically. It is the broader perspective of uniqueness.
Uniqueness is discovering your specific colour and hue of the rainbow, diversity is the rainbow 🌈
They are different sides of the same coin
One cannot exist without the other
So be yourself
And allow others the same freedom
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@betterup asked their coaches, “What makes you U

@betterup asked their coaches, “What makes you Unique?” See below 👇 for my answer:
I have lived worked and travelled on 4 continents in 20 countries. I am a global citizen who truly understands diversity. 20 years ago I pivoted my career from professional modelling to couple counselling and coaching. I have 2 decades of experience as the relationship architect- which focuses on generating, renovating and restoring connection within oneself or between people. This year I launched my book Uncomplicated Love which teaches the art, science and practices for building a thriving relationship. Interestingly, many of these practices can be transferred into the workplace. I have learned that in the landscape of leadership and love, relationships matter the most. That the same relationship dynamics apply regardless of bedroom or boardoom. Power dynamics and connection are similar for all relationships above. Managing up (parents/ boss, collaborating to the side (a partner/ colleague) or guiding below (a child/ direct reports). This fresh perspective is my distinctive difference.
What do you imagine is yours?

Can you imagine how boring life would be if we wer

Can you imagine how boring life would be if we were all the same? It is our uniqueness - the full range of colours in the spectrum- that contributes to a fascinating world. We devour entertainment and stories that share something different about humanity because it takes courage in this world to be more and more of you are -
Be brave
Be bold
Be your Self!

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