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In your relationship, are you truly a team player…

In your relationship, are you truly a team player… or quietly a solo artist?

Relationships don’t thrive on love alone; they thrive on how we partner.

In the next Uncomplicated Love Mastermind, we’ll explore one of the most defining (and often unspoken) dynamics in relationships:
This session dives into partnership and partnering - how responsibility, support, decision-making, and emotional load are shared (or not) and how these patterns quietly shape connection, resentment and intimacy over time.

Drawing on the art, science, and practices of love from my book Uncomplicated Love, I’ll guide a reflective, practical conversation that helps you see:

-how you naturally show up in partnership

-where misalignment creates friction

-and what healthier, more intentional partnering can look like
This is a safe, thoughtful space to share, engage and reflect, and to walk away with greater clarity about how you relate, not just how you love.

📅WHEN? This Thursday February 12th, we’re opening the zoom doors again to the ‘Uncomplicated Love Mastermind Masterclass’ for a 60-minute, live conversation covering the topic of Partnership.

Live on Zoom. Register and reserve your spot via the link 🔗 in my bio
✨ Your first mastermind session is free.

Join us and discover what kind of partner you are becoming.

The zoom doors are opening at these times Thursday February 12th:

EST 1–2pm (Lunch & Learn) PST 10–11am
CST 12–1pm. UK 6–7pm. CET 7–8pm
SAST 8–9pm
A question to reflect on before we meet:

Who is / or was really holding the relationship together - and at what cost?

A breakthrough for any relationship, where one par

A breakthrough for any relationship, where one partner is struggling with addiction, is to take ownership of your wellbeing (physical, mental and emotional).
I talk more about this in the chapter “It begins with Me”.
Too many credit their partners for their own unhappiness.
They are often unhappy IN the relationship, thinking they are unhappy WITH their relationship.
The two are very different.
Link 🔗 in the bio to buy a copy of my book 📖 🫶

Hooray 🥳 we are only a few weeks away from @retrea

Hooray 🥳 we are only a few weeks away from @retreatyourselffestival
On Saturday 21 February at 09h00, in the Soul Centre, I’ll be delivering a workshop at the Retreat Yourself Festival called The Architecture of Love: Designing the Future of Your Relationship.

This session is open to both single people and couples.

We’ll take a deep dive into the domain of Compatibility, exploring what truly supports a healthy, life-giving relationship. I’ll guide you to clarify your non-negotiables, needs, and requirements for a relationship that brings out the best in both people and creates a strong foundation for the future.
Bring your journals ✍️ you will need to take notes for this one 🫶

How are you settling in to the new year? Before Ja

How are you settling in to the new year? Before January closes out, do yourself a favour and take a moment to ponder on a few questions to prepare you for 2026.
@chriswillx from Modern Wisdom created an annual template to design your life with intention. Here are a few of my favourites ☝️

For this year’s chapter of my life I want to become more masterful in coaching. I have registered for an MCC mastery programme and intend to elevate my skills from a professional coach (PCC) to a master coach (MCC).
Fingers crossed 🤞
I will share more when I am on the journey.

What are you up to?
What would have to happen for you to look back at this year and consider it a success?

One of the barriers to intimacy is neglecting phys

One of the barriers to intimacy is neglecting physical and mental health. Without physical health, it is common to move into survival mode, we lack the energy and vitality to invest fully in relationships.
Without mental health, it is a challenge to be open and receptive to receiving love.
When the story we play in our minds is one that says we are not lovable and/ or deserving of kindness and care, we can become our own saboteur by putting up walls to protect us from pending abandonment.

How to we overcome this?

You can find out in my book Uncomplicated Love- available from the link 🔗 in my bio

It’s still a thrill to see my books in store! 🙏🫶

It’s still a thrill to see my books in store! 🙏🫶

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