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We often think of intimacy as just one thing, but We often think of intimacy as just one thing, but did you know it actually has four key aspects?
We could say intimacy speaks four languages and yet most of us are only familiar with one language- physical intimacy. 
Every month I hold a 60-minute Masterclass, facilitating a conversation about core themes and topics from my book Uncomplicated Love. I am taking the ideas and moving them off the page and into real life. This session we will be mapping your intimacy capacity and drains with an Intimacy Map activity 
covering all four aspects- physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual intimacy.
This is where we take the complexity of modern relationships and make it usable, human and deeply practical. The zoom doors are opening at these times:
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Live on Zoom. Reserve your spot in the link of my STORY or DM me, I will send you the registration link 🔗
Our physical health, probably one of the most over Our physical health, probably one of the most overlooked and least respected assets of being human. It gives us the vitality and freedom to pursue every path, person and opportunity that matters to each of us. 

There are 4 wellness rhythms for us to pay attention to, that enable and support us to show love, to be a leader, to achieve or accomplish our aspirations:
1. Exercise and movement 
2. Hydration and quality nutrition 
3. Silencing of the mind 
4. Sleep 
Where are you neglecting your wellbeing? 
If you do nothing different- will the 85 year old version of be happy or miserable? 

 This extract above ☝️ is from the chapter’It Begins with Me’ from Uncomplicated Love 📖
If you considering a BHAG (Big, Hairy, Audacious G If you considering a BHAG (Big, Hairy, Audacious Goal) this year, you need to watch this video! 
Avoid the pattern of delays and excuses,
change your relationship with procrastination! 🤗 
Do you agree? What’s else has helped you?
Welcome back, if today was your first day back in Welcome back, if today was your first day back in the office. It is quite typical (especially from a coach) to be asking about your intentions or resolutions for the year. But what if January isn’t the starting line?
Perhaps its an orientation point.
Before we rush toward resolutions, goals, or reinvention, there’s a quieter and far more powerful question available to us:
How am I in relationship with myself (and with others) as this year begins?

Because how you speak to yourself in January often sets the emotional and relational tone for the months ahead.

Wishing you a beautiful, blessed and bountiful 2026!

#RelationshipIntelligence #LeadershipPresence #RelationshipsBeforeResolutions #HumanSkills #SelfLeadership JanuaryReflections
It is my absolute best to adventure to new places, It is my absolute best to adventure to new places, and to be with family in beautiful natural locations. I got both of these on my birthday this year.
I am a very fortunate lady indeed! 
Thank you Nate, Bear and Brinni for making my birthday extra special 🙏

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